1. CONFLICTS:
 1. children
 2. job for Helen
 3. Eric helping with housework
 4. Eric staying home.
  5. Eric being sociable. 
  6. Eric buying a gun. 

2.  BUDGET.
 We've talked about it. Helen will do finances. No real disagreement. Helen is a little uncomfortable with the idea of sharing everything, since she has huge debts and little income.